Confidence Coaching + Life Design for Women Who Are Done Playing Small

Tired of Feeling Overwhelmed & Playing Small?

Tired of Feeling Overwhelmed & Playing Small?

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Ready for small steps that create big shifts?

Join the 7-Day Confidence Kickstarter for just 7€.

Each day, receive a simple, powerful prompt & task designed to help you:

  • Gently step outside your comfort zone.

  • Connect with your inner voice and values.

  • Build consistent sparks of authentic confidence.

Let’s build momentum together.

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Rebuild self-trust, uncover your purpose, and create a life that actually fits you.

There's a gap between the life you’re living and the one you truly desire…

One filled with purpose, confidence, and authenticity.


▪️ Do you dream of waking up feeling clear and in control, not overwhelmed?

▪️ Of moving through your days with authentic confidence, making an impact that feels true to you?

▪️ Of living intentionally, not just reacting to demands and all of the “should do’s”?

Right now you might feel like you're stuck or going through the motions. And that your dream life is far, far away.

But the life you crave isn't found by accident.

It's designed…

Let's find your way back to yourself.

What no one tells you…

You know you're meant for more, but dealing with all of the crap we are supposed to be doing, topped with overwhelm and uncertainty is exhausting. Maybe you've been conditioned to second-guess yourself, follow paths that don't fit, or put everyone else's needs first. You're trying your best, but the routines feel draining, the direction is unclear, and "purpose" feels like a puzzle you can't solve. It's not your fault…and it's time for a different approach.

It's Time to Rediscover, Design, and Build Your Way Forward.

HDWomxn is for the women who…
▫️Feels overwhelmed and lost, stuck in routines that drain her energy.
▫️Knows she has potential but isn't sure how to tap into it or where to start.
▫️Craves clarity on her unique identity and purpose.
▫️Wants to build deep, authentic confidence, not just surface-level fixes.
▫️Is tired of comparison and is ready to live life on her terms, with intention (not just going through the motions).

The Process:

We don't believe in one-size-fits-all solutions. Instead, we guide you through a clear, supportive process:

☑️ Rediscover: Uncover your unique strengths, values, purpose, and authentic identity.

☑️ Design: Intentionally create a life you love, with routines that support your energy and align with who you truly are.

☑️ Build: Develop deep, authentic confidence to take action, trust yourself, and live purposefully.

When you stop reacting and start consciously designing, everything changes.

The Confidence Reset

Confidence isn’t your problem... clarity is. If you feel stuck, overthink everything, or quietly wonder “what’s wrong with me?”...you’re not broken. You’ve just lost touch with who you are. This reset helps you reclaim your self-trust and take up space again.

✓ Lifetime access to all 21 Confidence Reset lessons
✓ Daily Training Videos
✓ Confidence Challenges
✓ Clarity Worksheets
✓ Meditations, audio lessons & playlists
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I See You, Because I've Been There Too.

HDWOMXN was founded by me, Cindy Charles.

Like you, I once felt lost and overwhelmed, craving more… More clarity, more authentic confidence, more freedom to live life my way.

I’ve had so many of those moments, the frustration of feeling stuck in draining routines, wondering "Is this really it?" and feeling like no one truly understood the gap between where I was and where I knew I could be.

And I waited… for the right time, the right opportunity, the right version of myself…so I could finally step into the life I knew I was meant for. But the moment never showed up.

I had to make it happen.

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Here’s the truth: You don't have to wait, and you don't need permission.

You need clarity on who you are, practical tools to design your life intentionally, and the courage to build your confidence step-by-step.

My mission is simple: To help you Rediscover your unique identity, Design a life aligned with it, and Build the authentic confidence to live it fully.


Through confidence training, life design programs, and identity-level transformation, I’ll help you stop second-guessing yourself and start showing up as the woman you know you’re here to be. Whether you're rebuilding self-esteem, chasing a new vision, or just tired of living life on autopilot… this is where real change begins.

If you’re ready say Fuck that to the one-size-fits-all approach to life and work…if you’re ready to ditch the overwhelm, stop living on autopilot, and consciously create a life filled with purpose and authenticity…

Then welcome. You’re in the right place.

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FAQ’s

  • HDWOMXN is a holistic life design brand and confidence coaching space for millennial womxn ready to stop shrinking and start showing up. Our courses and tools blend personal growth, mindset work, creative strategy, and coaching to help you build bold self-belief and a life that actually fits.

  • This isn’t talk therapy or surface-level coaching. It’s life design meets self-leadership. We’ve blended coaching, intentional living, creative strategy, and personal growth.  We focus on helping you redesign your identity, habits, and direction so you feel aligned and in charge. Therapy helps you heal your past. HDWOMXN helps you design your future

  • Most women don’t need more information…they need transformation. Our frameworks aren’t cookie-cutter. They’re built for smart, capable women who’ve outgrown “just think positive” advice. If you’re ready to go deeper, this will change everything. What makes HDWOMXN different is the blend. We combine holistic coaching, life design, and modern brand thinking to help you reconnect with your authentic self and build a foundation rooted in clarity, confidence, and bold action.

  • You won’t wake up Beyoncé overnight (although, go off). But you will start:

    ▪️ Saying “no” without guilt

    ▪️ Taking action even when scared

    ▪️ Speaking up, backing yourself, and being seen

    ▪️ Creating habits, projects, and routines that actually stick

    ▪️ Feeling clear on what you want…and how to get it

    ▪️ Designing your days with purpose, not pressure

    ▪️ Feeling like you again (or for the first time)

  • Most women feel a mindset shift within the first week. Deeper, lasting confidence and alignment build over time. Some of our programs run for 21 days, others are self-paced…but all are designed for real-life, sustainable growth.

  • Honestly? Hopefully not that long.

    I’m not here to coach you forever. My goal is to give you the tools, clarity, and confidence to take charge of your own life..so you don’t need me (or any coach) ever again. This is about building self-leadership, not dependency. You’ll get what you need, implement it, and keep growing…on your terms.

  • Both. Most of our core programs like Confidence Reset and Find Your Fire are self-paced so you can start anytime, anywhere. Some challenges or trainings (like retreats or bonus sessions) may be run live or include community support. Check the product page for details.

  • Life design is about consciously creating a life aligned with your values, energy, and goals…a life that really feels like yours, not one you’ve just ended up in. It’s about clarity, confidence, creativity, and courage. We help you move from autopilot to intentional living while guiding you through the messy middle: figuring out who you are, what you want, and how to take bold, aligned action. Think: self-worth meets strategy.

  • So many women trying to design their dream lives hit the same roadblocks: self-doubt, people-pleasing, fear of judgment, and not enough confidence to follow through. So we realized, you don’t just need a plan…you need the self-trust and boldness to actually live it. Your beliefs, identity and voice all matter…designing your life includes becoming the kind of woman who can pull it off. Confidence gives you the fuel. Life design gives you the map.

  • Absolutely not. Confidence is the result, not the requirement. If you’ve got the quiet ache of knowing you're meant for more…even if you're scared, you're in the right place. We’ll help you build it from the ground up.

  • HDWOMXN is built for real women with real lives. Many of our lessons are bite-sized, and even 10–20 minutes a day can create serious momentum. It’s about consistent action…not perfection.

  • Here’s the current lineup:

    7-Day Confidence Challenge – Daily bold actions + journaling prompts to shake off fear and step into your power

    The Confidence Reset – A 21 day program to unlearn fear, rebuild self-trust, and rewire your confidence

    Find Your Fire – Our purpose and clarity training for women ready to uncover who they really are and what they’re meant to do

    Self Unleashed – Our signature life design program to create an aligned life, habits, and identity that match your boldest self

    Aligned AF Retreats – Global transformational experiences for women who’ve completed Self Unleashed

  • Our courses, challenges, and coaching are for millennial womxn (late 20s–early 40s) who feel stuck, lost, low in confidence, or like they’re meant for more. Whether you’re starting over, in a life rut, or ready to stop hiding…we’ve got a path for you.

  • “Womxn” is an inclusive spelling of “woman/women” that breaks away from language rooted in “man” and “men.” It’s a small but intentional shift…one that challenges outdated norms and reflects a broader, more inclusive definition of womxnhood. We use it to acknowledge and include all women, including those who may not always feel represented in traditional spaces.