Please be your authentic, fabulous self.
I've been called weird so many times. I've been told not to do things. I've even fallen for it sometimes and started that ridiculous thing where we compare ourselves and then feel like a moron because we aren't the same as everyone else... where we almost just become what they say we should be so that we can fit in.
But I truly am a believer in just being yourself... even to the point where I am a little anti-status quo and a lot of damn the man.
(Save the empire.)
It's hard, I get it. We are constantly surrounded by people telling us how we should be and advertising and influencers pinging at us every few minutes reminding us what all the cool kids are doing. In fact, research shows that people are exposed to between 4,000 and 10,000 ads every single day, all designed to influence our choices and behaviors. No wonder we sometimes feel pressured to conform.
As a creative, I actually appreciate the beauty in the weird stuff and the diversity that exists in this crazy world. Studies show that diverse teams are 35% more likely to outperform their competitors, proving that embracing different perspectives isn’t just about self-expression...it’s a competitive advantage. It is WAY more exciting than 7 million copies of the same thing.
There are HUGE benefits to everyone doing things in their own way. Making the most of everyone's unique abilities and not sticking people in boxes can only move us forward. A 2019 report found that companies fostering individuality and inclusion see a 19% increase in innovation revenue. Imagine what that could mean in your personal life...embracing your true self could be the key to unlocking your best ideas, your most fulfilling work, and your happiest relationships.
So today, I'm reminding you not to compromise yourself to fit in. There is always a new path to be forged, a new way to teach someone, a new way to do things.
Please be your authentic, fabulous self. And if you don't know who or what that is... start doing the work to learn. Because the world doesn’t need another copy...it needs YOU.
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